Building A VILLAGE #spiritualadvice #Buildingcommunity #ScienceofMind #SOM #SpiritualLiving

When you move to a new place—either geographically or mentally—the first action you should consider taking is to get involved with communities of people who have the same interests, beliefs, or desires as you. Why is this so beneficial in establishing a secure base?

Not all of us have had a secure family life in the past, but most of us have felt the comfort of good friends, work associates, or small groups you meet with occasionally. Usually, these communities draw to you a few personal relationships that grow stronger with interpersonal experiences. Eventually, you end up having people in your life you can count on in times of need.

So, saying that community is helpful in relinquishing fear is fair to say. When we have community, we realize that we are not alone in this world. This fact is so important in releasing fear and anxiety. When we have people who care about us, and we can care back with the same loving force, this creates bonds that grow even deeper than familial connections.

You have heard me talk about moving to Florida last year to be nearer to family. I will admit that one of the reasons for this move was to be closer to people who could help me care for my aging mother. My three sisters agreed to help, so I moved my life closer to them to create a community of caregivers for my mother. In so doing, I found something that I didn’t expect. I discovered that my family, the people I had left years ago to find my own life and reach for my desires were truly people I could count on. When we get together, now, our relationships rarely resemble the relationships we had had with each other as children. We all have gotten to know each other as adults. How rare this is. Also, how beautiful and comforting this is to have my family be my friends, as well. They all have become a part of my community, now, and I feel fortunate to have them.

Yet, in moving forward with my life and my career, I have also had to make time to establish community outside of my family. I have created a spiritual group, which I facilitate. I have gotten involved with the Latin community, while I study Spanish. And I have joined social media groups that keep me in communication with the people who are working as Actors in South Florida.

All of these places of connection have established a very secure base for me, within only a year. I feel as if I have friends whom I can trust and also have realized which ones are not so worthy of drawing closer. But, the learning curve of finding communities of people that create security and growth in your life will always help you discern with whom you need to attract and those without whom you would be better off. This is just part of life.

In conclusion, Hillary Clinton once said, “It takes a village to raise a child!” You and I are still children in this Universe. The villages that raise us are essential in our growth. Become a part of a community today!


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