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Instagram, Insta-fame, Overnight YouTube Success!

While watching the news or a television show the terms #instant_success or #overnight_YouTube_Success seem to be popping up everywhere. If you have been in the arena of SEO’s (search engine optimization), social media, and website success, you know nothing is for free. Success rarely happens overnight.

I have many people in my life who have been working way too hard to not have made it to success yet. The timing of success is not always up to you. In fact, I don’t believe we have much more to do in our lives except:

 

  1. to be present,
  2. shine our lights, and 
  3. be prepared.

 

In other words, we must do our work and not just sit around waiting for luck.

For instance, whether my books are selling or not, I write my blog and or write something everyday. I write daily to let myself and the universe know that I express as a Writer. As far as my other projects, these too are all a part of the bigger picture for me as I sow seeds for the future.

As many you have seen, I have started a new YouTube cooking channel and a website (launch is July 2017) called Angel Feast. In three weeks, I have conceived, written, and produced fourteen cooking shows. I have marketed them every day. I have used social media and have worked every last contact to help push the process forward.

So, you may ask, how many active people do you have signed up for your new YouTube Channel? The answer is 40. When you think of the amount of time and work I have given to this project in conception and actual production, the expectation is that I would be an overnight success. The truth, however, is that getting to the top of web searches and allowing time for people to find your product takes great effort, considerable amount of time, and often professional help. Many times, people get tired of waiting and hire the entire process out to a company who works at just marketing and promotions.

For me, I want things to happen organically. I remember when there were only 10 people reading my blog every day. I now have had about 10 million people read FindingAuthenticYou.com blog in the past 7 years. I write almost every day. I am consistent, and I share my content on social media in as many places as will have me. This is the way to success.

So, if you’re doubting yourself or your new business right now, Chin Up! There is no need to pout. The Universe is well aware of your work. Your negative thoughts will only make it harder to achieve your goals. You must consistently treat or pray positive, affirming prayers for your good and believe that you have already succeeded simply by giving 100% every day.

I have written many blogs about this process. My entire last book, “Your New Story, Your New Life” is completely dedicated to this subject. If you would like to order it: Click Here!

Deciding on and living by your core values is a tenuous challenge. My many years of spiritual coaching and life coaching can help you with this. I have helped many people in this situation see light and overcome the darkness of the past. For more information and individual pricing or as a guest speaker, give me a call: 954-253-6493.

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What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493
(Sessions CAN BE DONE via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Look for MY LATEST BOOK: “Your New Story, Your New Life” with a pathway to CLEAR (C-larity, L-ove, E-nthusiasm A-nd R-elationship-Ready) on my Website or on Amazon. Thanks!

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Teenage Meltdown: Trump Tantrum

I once saw a forty-year-old adult have a tantrum. She was so upset and distraught by things not going her way, she actually got on the floor, on her belly, and screamed as she pounded her fists alternately. It was the first time I had actually seen an adult or a president—like yesterday’s #Trump_tantrum— really lose it completely in public. We have all seen cartoons of this kind of behavior, but few of us have seen it in reality.

Psychologically, where does this kind of childlike behavior originate? Why is it still manifesting in adult form in so many people in authority positions, especially in adult males?

In Psychology Today, Joshua Gowin writes about tantrums:

When our lives are in danger, we have a built in response to mobilize our defense. The fight/flight response would naturally kick in if, on a hike in the mountains, you stumble upon a bear. The bear is processed in the brain as a potential threat to your survival, so within seconds your brain releases norepinephrine (also called noradrenaline), and within minutes a surge of cortisol will circulate through your body. These chemicals rapidly mobilize your body for energy utilization. You will release sugar into the blood stream for energy, your pupils will dilate to take in more information and your muscles will be ready to contract rapidly.

Temper tantrums are a version of the same response. Conflicts, such as a battle (over President Obama spying on you) may not be life-threatening, but it is a fight nonetheless. A tantrum also speeds the heart rate and is accompanied by bursts of norepinephrine and cortisol.

We know this happens periodically with children. What happens when the male who is running our country exhibits this behavior?

Continue reading below.

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Continued from Above:

The issue of getting angry is not the real problem here. The issue of allowing anyone’s anger to manifest in a public forum where the media can see and hear is when anxious Americans and leaders and people from around the globe look at Trump’s behavior and say, “My God, what is going to happen the World’s greatest country?”

Stephen A. Diamond, PhD, in an article “Anger Disorder and What Can We Do About It?” writes:

The most commonly used psychiatric diagnoses for aggressive, angry or violent behavior are Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder and Conduct Disorder (in children and adolescents), Psychotic Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Antisocial, Borderline, Paranoid and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Adjustment Disorder with Disturbance of Conduct, and Intermittent Explosive Disorder. This latter diagnosis is an impulse control disorder characterized by repeated “failure to resist aggressive impulses…”

So, in the case of Trump_Tantrum 101, we see that Donald Trump’s Tweet-Syndrome may be his response to anger. He can’t resist it. Not Tweeting keeps him awake at night. The only sedation Trump can get from his anger is to lash out at someone on Twitter. Does this sound like a World Leader to you?

I’m completely disarmed by watching all of Trump’s behavior unfold in front of America. I’m even more worried when, as we get so concerned over the bad behavior that we miss what happens while and before and after the—such as 10 legal documents signed and ready to be expedited to congress. A lawyer friend posted this list of Bills set into motion Friday at the White House. This took my attention away from Trump_Tantrum 101 for a millisecond:

In case anyone got overly sidetracked by the Russian spy drama, the following bills HAVE been introduced:

  1. HR 861 Terminate the Environmental Protection Agency

  2. HR 610 Vouchers for Public Education

  3. HR 899 Terminate the Department of Education

  4. HJR 69 Repeal Rule Protecting Wildlife


  5. HR 370 Repeal Affordable Care Act


  6. HR 354 Defund Planned Parenthood


  7. HR 785 National Right to Work (this one ends unions)


  8. HR 83 Mobilizing Against Sanctuary Cities Bill


  9. HR 147 Criminalizing Abortion (“Prenatal Nondiscrimination Act”)

  10. HR 808 Sanctions against Iran
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Call your House Representative and ask them to not only vote “NO”…but to speak up for our rights, health & safety, and our beautiful country.

What I know about Narcissism and Childish Behavior is this:

  1. If you are in the same room with a narcissist, you will begin to feel as if you are crazy as well.
  2. If you let a narcissist control you, you will end up being a co-narcissist, which is almost as bad as being a narcissist.
  3. If you don’t walk away and let the narcissist destroy itself, you will somehow enable the very person you want to avoid or disarm.

Most therapists find treating narcissism a waste of time, because a great narcissist has many faces and can convince you that he has changed. When, in fact, the narcissist uses every tool in his arsenal to control everyone’s behavior around him—especially those he has appointed to be closest to him—no matter what he or she has to do to make this happen.

We have seen this in the President elect. Even two days before this past incredible outburst and tantrum (3-3-17), Trump acted maturely and almost empathetically at his address to Congress. Donald Trump is a chameleon and an actor. The people who have pressed in close to help him have all become co-narcissists and helpers that probably feel trapped.

At this point, the best we can all do is get out of the metaphoric room, stay attentive to and continue to fight against everything that is out of order, and let the Narcissist destroy himself!

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Deciding on and living by your core values is a tenuous challenge. My many years of spiritual coaching and life coaching can help you with this. I have helped many people in this situation see light and overcome the darkness of the past. Give me a call: 954-253-6493. SKYPE sessions are available.

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493
(Sessions CAN BE DONE via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

You don’t get to this voice if reason or recognize it unless you spend time with yourself in silence, asking yourself important self-talk questions. This is like dating. You must get to know the voice of the Spirit by spending time in meditation and silence. This is the only I know to clearly download the power of wisdom and recognize the voice—IN TIMES OF TRAUMA—that is always directing YOU into safety!

 

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Full Frontal or Just Back Side Up?

Since I have been single, I have taken to trying out a few dating sites. I started out with the more dating oriented ones (OkCupid and PlentyofFish and Match.com). After about two weeks, you really see that there are about 3 people that you may be compatible with and unless someone new signs up, you really get bored. With Match.com, I wouldn’t suggest spending the money. It was fairly worthless. There were men on that site who I know have been in relationship for years and haven’t even lived in Nashville for years. It is a scam.

Well back in my younger days, I was kind of addicted to the old kind of gay websites that roped you in with all these naked pictures. I would spend lots of time talking to people that were probably enigmas. I had to completely get off of the sites, because it had become an addiction, and happens to be one of the biggest growing addictions in the world today.

Some close friend, however, told me that one of the old ones that I used to haunt was kind of the go-to gay scene now, so I took a chance and signed up yesterday. Holy Shit!

So, I go to this site called Adam4adam.com and, Oh Jesus, it is filled with 90% crazies with butts in the air stretched wide open, full frontal, flowering blooms, and guys doing the nasty. And the profiles are wild. Most of the men want 3-ways, fetishes, sex now, then at the end, they say, and would be into relationships too… I’m thinking… REALLY!

What part of all of that first part means relationship—well, the kind of intimate, monogamous relationship I would be into? What are you telling the universe with that kind of crap all around you?

Honestly, I have not had sex since I broke up with Steve. I really don’t want to until I find someone who is worthy of having an adult relationship with. I’m just tired of making these pseudo-intimate commitments that end up in never really knowing the person, because if you have sex first you get ahead of knowing the authentic person inside the body you grow connected to. I’m sure that’s what happened with my ex.

I honestly don’t feel like I even know him at all at this point. When I hear of his lifestyle after we broke up, it’s as if he was hiding who he was the entire time we were together. It’s no wonder he wanted his own apartment. He needed to be who he really was. That’s understandable. Had I known there was a mystery person dying to get out for drugs, alcoholic binges, and one-night stands, I would have never suggested him moving in. But that’s my great mistake, that taught me to never be so naïve again.

But I do have to say that talking to these dudes on this Adam4adam.com if making me laugh. It is a lesson in life that I will hopefully be able to share in small doses with you. For instance, this man tonight who seemed very normal by his photo and profile, hit me up and asked to talk. He looked normal. Was dressed in a suit in his one photo. I thought he was a business-type person. He ended up being a nudist who wanted to have dinner nude at his home this evening. Lol–without even meeting first. OMG I’m sorry, but nakedness and food just don’t belong together.

Then I had a conversation with an African American man who said he remembered me from walking down the street one day five years ago. He said I smiled at him and my gaze went right through him. He wished, then, that he had gone up to me and said hello. He told himself that if he ever had the chance to meet me again, that he would. That is why he was contacting me tonight. Funny thing is, I remember the meeting. I just remembered seeing him around and was smiling to let him know that I remembered him. Funny how life works out. We just had a nice conversation about God and spirituality. He could end up a friend.

And yet another man contacted me today who was completely intrigued with hypnotherapy and wanted to know more about it. He was interested in about finding his authentic self. I hope he calls and follows up, though I know it is a long shot on these kinds of sites. But the truth is, you just never know.

Leading with your own authentic self, whether it be on the street with a stranger, or on a site that is completely out of your comfort zone, can lead you to a magical, spiritual moment that was designed perfectly for each person involved. I hope you will learn to lean into life instead of backing away from it, like this experience and find more genuine moments like the ones I had today.

Namaste.

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Bo Sebastian is a Hypnotherapist and Life & Health Coach, available for private sessions to QUIT SMOKING, Lose Weight, New Lap-Band Hypnosis for Weight Loss, CHANGE YOUR MIND, CHANGE YOUR LIFE! at 615-400-2334 or www.bosebastian.com.

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