Category: The Art of Dreaming and Positive Thinking

Finding Home Base—Finding LOVE!

No matter who you are and how much you like your alone time, in each one of us we have DNA that longs to be in the arms of someone loving or feel safe in the arms of something tangible. Many of us seek to get this same feeling from food, expensive things, sexual encounters, and the like. However, nothing really meets our expectation more than someone (even if it’s a best friend or family member) who loves us for exactly who we are.

The reason why some of us try to cram loads of fattening food down our throas is for the simple reason that trying to find that someone has not been successful in the past. Also, it may be that you have been lazy about taking care of your body, and you simply don’t believe that you could ever attract someone to you looking and feeling the way you do. This is so not the case.

The fact is that there are far more people who are NOT in good shape than there are people who are smoking hot. I’d say that only about 5% of people are satisfied with the way they look. Most are not.

So, then, why are we so afraid to find someone in the same place that we are? Do we not believe that simply because you lust after the person that is way out of your league that everyone is like this?

I would venture to guess that many men and women would be thrilled to be with someone just like you! If you only believed this truth in your own soul, you’d probably find that person.

I once sat next to a great couple at a fundraiser for the Public Library. The wife was on the board of directors, vivacious and sweet, but very overweight. The husband was what I call a muscle mutt, stunningly attractive. But he only had eyes for her. I assumed that they had probably been married for a long time and that maybe she was thin when they had met. Not true. They had only been married for 2 years. Saw the wedding pics. She was the same weight when they got married.

It was in that moment I realized there is simply someone for everyone. The muscle mutt man wasn’t so brilliant as his wife. He was more the fixer-type. I could see immediately that he needed her expertise and wisdom as much as she probably enjoyed having a hottie to hold on to during this beautiful occasion. Like doesn’t always attract like.

I’m not saying, either, that we should look for people who lack what we have. I’m saying that you should love yourself and believe that who are is a Spirit made of love and light. The rest will follow. Who you attract will be dependent upon how much love you want to give out in your life and how open your heart is.

Trust me, I have attracted a lot of losers in my life because of my loving spirit. We must also have a great amount of wisdom when it comes to who we invite into our lives.

What you must look for in a partner:

1. Trustworthiness

2. A Sense of Security

3. Neither Avoidant or Needy

4. On the same path spiritually with you

5. Having space and time for you; and of course

6. Is authentic and secure with his or her life.

The above is an idealistic list. You always sow the seeds of your highest expectation in the supreme consciousness, then God begins to grow the plant. We can only sow the seeds and continue to believe by acting “as if” we are already ready for our dream to come true. Spirit does the rest. This is true in the earth as we sow seeds into the fertile soil. Spirit shows us that this is an example of how the law of attraction works.

We can only water the seed of our dream and wait. We can’t overwater and pull up the plants out of the ground.

Remember: today that your dreams are about to happen when you believe with your entire heart that the possibilities of the universe are endless.

Read more about fulfilling your destiny and changing your life with the right prayers and belief in my latest book: Your New Story, Your New Life.

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When Life Exceeds Your Expectation!

Not many people get to say that their lives are exceeding their expectation. What do I attribute to being able to finally saying this?

About 3 1/2 years ago I decided to make a move in my life that was not only physically different (Nashville to South Florida), but I also decided that I would do nothing the way I had done it in the past. Yes, I was successful in Nashville in business, but my success was hard fought and lasted as long as I kept putting all of my life force into it and giving people what they wanted. I didn’t think much about what I needed to be the spiritual force I had been created to be.

Then everything changed with one phone call from my sister Lori. “Come to Florida,” she said, “and we will all help take care of Mom!”

I thought, “I have been wanting to make a change, a shift. Now is the time. No one or nothing is holding me back.” I had just had a major split from a partner I thought I would marry, on Valentine’s day no less, he said, “I don’t know if you’re the one!” The next day he was gone. I literally only saw him one more time and that was on the Internet on a gay dating site.. OY

I sold my home, gave away my business, and decided I would let God do the rest. Relationships, work, spiritual home were all up in the air. I did have an idea of where I would find fellowship in Florida. That much was clear and nothing else. I didn’t even choose my own apartment. My sister did that for me as I put my mom on a plane 3 months before I left for Florida for good.

What I really want to explain here is what change in my heart that dynamically made the most difference in my life:

HOW I PRAYED! WHAT I PRAYED! AND HOW I LET MYSELF BE LED TO THE NEXT OPEN DOOR!

Nothing is more important than finding that prayerful place where you become one with the highest consciousness available for you in the moment you pray. This kind of meditation, combined with affirmative prayer (check out this page of my blog for how), changed everything for me.

I wrote a book about the entire experience without even knowing where I would be in the next two years. I simply believed I would experience everything the seeds of my believe would bring forth: prosperity, true love, spiritual growth, a loving and secure place to live, and mostly simple peace and happiness.

Here is the name of the book. Just click on the name and get your Digital Copy or Hard Copy: Your New Story, Your New Life

 

Also, check out this meditation and get silent with me today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lO4gjBt5UJI&t=27s

 

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What Is Your Story as of Today?

I wrote a book a couple of years back called “Your New Story, Your New Life.” The premise of the book lies in the idea that we #create_your_story everyday of your life. If you believe this and follow my directions on how to use your creative energy to change the negativity in your life, you will soon see your life blossom into something you only thought you could dream of.

My book, I would come to find out, was prophetic of my own life in the coming years. Last evening, my hubby and I were listening to a YouTube podcast about spirituality last night. The lecturer, Scott Mandleker, spoke about how most people on this earth right now, don’t like their jobs, their chosen mates, their homes, their life situations, their relationships. In fact, he said that almost a huge % of people dislike 2 of the 5 aspects of their lives, everyday, every moment.

After listening, Dave and I chatted about the impact the talk had on us, which is our usual course of action, before we prayer together. This is our nighttime ritual before sleep. Personally, I was taken by the fact that most people don’t like their lives or certain aspects of it. My first thought, though, was that I loved each part of my life, especially the parts Scott mentioned that most people hate.

I also remember thinking that there had been times in my recent past that I didn’t like a few aspects of my life. I asked myself and David what it was that he thought changed in the past few years that made the huge shift in both of our lives. (David also confided that he didn’t like his job, lack of relationship, and much of what he felt in his recent past was a stagnancy with lack of hope.)

Obviously, we realized that the #SHIFT BEGAN. Before we ever dated, we became prayer partners. Our lives immediately began to shift almost everyday. Dave was so shocked at how quickly his life began to turn around that he began to commit to the prayer even more. I had already written my book, but it wasn’t published. In fact, Dave was the one hired to design and create the book cover. Even though I believed everything that I had written in the book, I hadn’t seen the powerful work that prayer could do to change even the most miniscule parts of my life that weren’t to my exact liking.

When I first moved to Florida I was in a place where I had no idea what I wanted to be “when I grow up.” I literally put down my own spiritual paint brush and asked God to inspire a new vision for me, one that would create 100% happiness everyday in my work, in my relationships, in my family, and in my living situation.

When I think of where I started and where I am now, I believe that every seed that Dave and I had planted into the celestial garden of Spirit has not only grown, but has begun to bear much fruit.

For instance, We often prayed for prosperity. We didn’t pray for the kind of prosperity that is too much for any one person. We simply wanted to be taken care of and have some left over to give as we pleased and at least go out to dinner a couple of times a week. When we look at our financials, this year we have made 4x more this past four months than we did this time last year. FOUR times more! That’s huge.

Now, this is not to say that we haven’t opened scary doors that sometimes frightened us because we didn’t understand where they might lead. But our goal was always to encourage each other to open every positive door and see where God would take us. As a result, we have had the ride of our lives. Another example of this is: I had started painting as a hobby and a fun thing to do with my husband. In only a few months, I had sold 5 paintings. This is just an example of doing what your heart is inspired to do, inspite of your fears.

Dave, too, has had quite the reversal where his work has taken him. When he lived in Dublin, Ireland, he had worked in a job that never really served his higher purpose for so long that he began to feel that life would always be rough in this aspect of his life. It was hard for him to dig himself out of the hole he dug for himself, where work was concerned.

When we began praying together, within a month the company he worked for literally closed their doors. He was pushed out of the door and into life by a few of his helper angels, I’d say. Though scary, this was the best thing that could have ever happened in his life. This release of that job and a severance package is what led him to come to the states for a couple of visits. Of course, this is when we fell in love.

The rests is history.

My thought here—and I hope it’s your thought too—is that you can change your life today. You may need some support to help you in your prayer life, as I did. But this is also something you can pray for and ask Spirit to lead you to. Had I not said to Dave at the very beginning of our work relationship (he was going to design the cover of the exact book that I was talking about at the beginning of this blog), we would have never had the opportunity to commit each day to prayer, sowing seeds of truth into the spiritual world of thought… where all life and dreams begin.

As I have often said to my spiritual students, “You sow the seeds into the spiritual consciousness, and God grows the plant. This is the same action and metaphor that happens with an actual seed for any plant or flower. Plant it! Take care of it (with positive and hopeful thoughts)! The result is a beautiful and lovely flower, plant, or fruit tree that takes a little longer, but will bear fruit for many years.

HELP IS ONLY A PHONECALL AWAY. I am a life coach and spiritual coach. I work in person and online through Skype or FaceTime. The cost is minimal considering that your life will change exponentially when you begin this kind of spiritual work. I combine coaching with powerful hypnosis techniques that will teach you to meditate and enrich your prayer life in ways you never imagined.

Call today for an appointment: 954-253-6493

If you can’t afford an appointment, I’ll work with you on the cost. No one should be without spiritual advice and someone to help them to the next step spiritually.

Also, please read over blogs on this site that may lead you to some awareness you may not have known before. Of course, one of my books will help as well.

I pray you will never stop asking, and especially consider your asking for help a gift!

Namaste and much blessings.

Bo

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