Do You Have Something to Worry About? Really?
May 9, 2017
Early yesterday morning, I was told by my sister that my mother was in the Emergency Room. An aneurism in her aorta was the reason that my mother would be taken by an ambulance to another hospital nearby for emergency surgery. This was two days ago.
Today, my mother is home safely, shaken up, and has not had any surgery. What exactly transpired in the past 48 hours that would constitute the amount of worry, stress, time spent in the ER and Hospital, and money spent by the insurance company?
It took four siblings, three doctors, a surgeon, my mother’s nurse, the head of nursing, and 5 different tests to say that someone in the emergency room got it wrong. As the final word from the surgeon was: “The only person who can say whether or not this surgery is going to be done is me. And I think it would not be a good idea. Here are the reasons why!”
My sister Lori and I stayed most of the night with my mother in her hospital room, slept for about 4 hours at my sister’s home nearby, then returned to the hospital early the next morning because we were told my mother’s doctor would be in her room at 7 a.m. to make the call about her surgery.
Almost 12 hours later, the surgeon came into the room and told us that he would not do the surgery. Almost 12 hours after her MRI we got the results from the test. My concern is: What the hell happened to being forthright and expedient when you are dealing with people’s lives (3 of us took off work for the next couple of days)?
Life is about the metaphors and those intimate places Spirit collects us to deal with our symptoms and develop our deepest truth. What I learned from the experience is more about the symptom of fear, than about anything else.
My mother was ultimately told that she was too old to have an operation that could put her on kidney dialysis for the rest of her life and put her at risk for death. Basically, she would have to live life with a ticking time bomb inside her heart and learn to be less stressed! Period!
What a lesson to be told: If you want to live longer, learn to be less stressed, worry less, and quit taking life so seriously! This was her prescription.
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