Physical substance—as distinct from Spiritual and Mind—make up the definition of matter. My questions today: Does matter matter?
In an article in Men’s Fitness called “Can Money Make You Sick?” the author spoke of how students with large college loans were at risk for high blood pressure, young students. Of course, we have just the opposite study saying that people who make little money are also likely to have high blood pressure in NaturalNews.com. So, how much matter should matter?
Once, someone bought me a Fabergé egg for Easter. A beautiful wooden and golden egg enshrouded in a magnificent thrownlike case became the most valuable object I owned. For as long as I had possessed egg, I never wanted to take it out of the case. I simply became afraid it would fall and break. Eventually, I added it to my homeowner’s insurance, because someone might steal it or it may become damaged.
I realized after many years, that having an object that I can’t even enjoy because of fear of loss, became one of the biggest lessons of my life. I began to see that what matters, isn’t matter at all. The greatest and most wonderful parts of my life have absolutely no material value. Friends and loved one will always remain at the top of my Grown Up Christmas List. After that, the spiritual connection that allows me to value their authentic love in my life comes second. Lastly, singing and playing music comes in at the end of my list.
As you can see, none of these things above can be bought. I have had friends who were in my life in grand and wonderful ways. When any one of them had passed, I experienced true loss. Value seemed to instantly appear when that which had impermanence went away. After which, our lives seemed to gain a true understanding of the value of SoulMatter.
I wouldn’t mind a Lexus convertible for Christmas, but I’m sure I’d feel the same as I did today when I had a tiny collision with a truck. I felt that my car was only an object, and a scratch or two didn’t make much of a difference in the large scheme of life. I have friends who wash and wax their cars every week, keep them in a garage, and put fancy covers over them to protect their worth. But take the car out on the road and let a surprise storm encroach on the fun, skid on the road, and, now, run into the side rail. That lovely car now becomes a pain in your behind for a week or two as you haggle with insurance, pay the high deductible, and watch your valuable car devalue because it has been in a collision. Does matter matter? If it does, you are about to have heart problems and high blood pressure.
Well, the truth be told, even that which has no physical value can hurt terribly when we lose it. So, the intangible has just as much threat of loss than the intangible. What can we make of this?
I go back to my original statement about matter. What we see as a person or a friend can be physical or it can be a spiritual connection. If you lose a friend, then the spiritual memory remains forever, but the loss becomes the day-to-day collision of minds and body. So, are we really experiencing the loss of matter? Only if what we attain in friendships and love remains on a tangible, physical plain.
I’m of the belief that what we become attached to physically on this earth will always bring us pain in the end. So, learning our lessons to detach from the physical world and love from a purely peaceful and loving place in the heart can help with any devastating loss.
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The masses search outward for things that qualify them as a person, but I always go inward for that which quantifies me for greatness. At twenty-five I preached on street corners in NYC as an in-the-closet Pentecostal minister. One day I heard a still small voice say, ‘God cannot be contained in a book or a law or even in a religion. Dig deeper, reach further to find me, and you will find your authentic Self.’”
A Year to CLEAR Challenge!
The acronym CLEAR stands for (Compassionate, Loving, Enthusiastic, And Relationship-Ready). The goal of this project is to engulf readers in a weekly study that will transform them by removing blocks, promote self-growth, and give them wings to fly freely into daily life. Each week, by going to BoSebastian.com and choosing the Year to CLEAR Challenge tab, a new challenge or thought to provoke conversation, growth, and group functionality.
My vision is to make Finding Authentic You the book to have in your Kindle or on your computer. The book is a comprehensive look at growth—spiritually, mentally, and physically.
As a yoga teacher and student of the Ayurvedic tradition, I bring to the table understanding of physical challenges, the ability to overcome mental problems with Life & Health Coaching, as well as hypnotherapy, and expertise in meditation and spirituality as a minister.
The combination of all three in one book with an interactive connection to like-minded readers, for one year, is what makes this Year to CLEAR Challenge a must-do for every spiritual seeker.
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No one believes he or she can change overnight. But success in change comes from the metaphors of nature. Seasonally, life changes all around us in nature. Finding Authentic You offers a gradual change perspective, looking at the triune aspects of change as in yoga: Body, Mind and Spirit.
Accessing the ability to change and finding yourself actually pursuing change must be a daily search, which I call getting to the “observer mind.”
In this frontal cortex of the brain we find the anatomy of change and the power to counter every negative trigger of the human process. The workings of Hypnosis, NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) are all positive actions to help the mind and body flow to a positive space for change.
Every aspect of FINDING AUTHENTIC YOU fulfills this constant need for diffusing the negative past and dreaming of a fulfilling future.
Step 1: Recognize That Change is Inevitable
Step 2: Release from Resistance to Change
Step 3: Understanding Change and Allow Spirit to Define It
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