How Many Times Do You Have to Ask?

I get very irritated when people ask me to do the same thing over and over again. Just as I am about to fulfill my request, I get another phone call: “Are you on your way…” My mother is famous for this kind of passive aggressive nagging. How many times do you have to #ask_from_God?

I remember when I was a waiter in a New York restaurant. Wealthy customers on the Upper East Side of NYC were very used to getting what they wanted, when they wanted it. So, of course, their requests came with a great deal of caveats. I would find myself avoiding their tables after they ordered until the cook was ready, because these spoiled people wanted everything before it was ready. Do you think that Universal Mind of God might react in the same way as I do to the many requests? Or do you think that asking too many times is just a lack of faith in the mind of the person making the request?

On this earth plane, when you ask for something, you should imagine that the request has been heard. If you don’t see signs of your request manifesting, then, in a reasonable time, ask again. Asking again, after a time, just suggests that you are on top of what you need and expect to see signs of your request. Asking too much suggests that you have no faith in the person you asked.

Metaphorically, on a spiritual plane, if you planted a seed in the fertile ground of Divine Mind and after three weeks saw no signs of it growing, you might consider that a bird ate it, you over watered it, or it was a seed gone bad. It is right and just to follow up on anything on this earth plane. Anything could and may happen to our request. But it is right or polite to ask again and again from anyone, even God? This annoying asking shows distrust and a lack of faith in the person you asked and to the Universe as well.

When you ask, ask believing that the Universe has heard your request. Even Psychology Today believes that prayer is often successful for many people who believe! Is believing the key point. This is the same as if you planted that seed. You can’t keep going to the garden and digging up the seed to see if it has begun to grow. You would kill the plant. You must have faith in the Universal Law of Science and growth. Planting a seed in the Universal mind is the same as asking for something from God. This takes:


  • Time,

  • Faith in the Law,

  • Expectancy that the law works in time.

When all of these facets of the Law have been done, the only thing left to do is wait patiently for God to fulfill what the Universe must produce. Within every mighty oak seed is the potential to become a might oak tree. This growth does not happen in an instant or even in a year. Some requests take much longer than others.

Think of fruit bearing trees. These seeds begin to grow fairly quickly and will even get larger and larger over the years, but may not produce fruit for 3-5 years. This is a divine metaphor for you to think about today. How long have you been waiting for the fruit from your tree to manifest? Do you have more work to do and more time to wait? 

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