Living the Dream of Peace #findingpeace #spirituality #attainingadream

Almost twenty years ago, I took a class on attaining my life’s dream. Everyone in the class started off with a huge piece of poster board. We began a graph that would look similar to a family tree when finished. The words on the left were all the things we dreamed of wanting in our lives and connected to those dreams was one of the most ingenious insights I’ve ever had in my life.

  • From that first list we were to connect the dreams that were similar and create a smaller list with more define ideas.
  • From this new list, we were to ferret out our three biggest dreams.
  • The most interesting and most insightful step, however, to this process was the next:  Beside each of the remaining words on the list, share one word that you believe you would attain as a result of gaining that insight or goal. So for instance: If I ended up three words:

Becoming a Rock Star——-(fame),

Being a millionaire———-(financial security), and

Getting married————-(feeling loved),

beside each of those words I would write what is in parentheses.

As the workshop proceeded, we actually dropped the initial goals and attended only to the feelings that the goals would give us. The teacher would ask, out of those three feelings, which is more important to you? out of those two feelings, which is more important to you?

So, at the very end of my graph, I ended up with one word: PEACE. What I realized I wanted in life was not to be a Rock Star. I wanted peace.

Ever since I did that class, I have always used the word peace as a litmus test to see if I were headed on the right road to success in every way. If I lacked peace, or if the pursuit of any goal moved me away from peace, I would release it completely.

When you assess the many ways that you think will give you happiness, you often realize that “the thing” itself has nothing to do with the quality of life or feeling you want to possess. You simply have attached the feeling to the idea.

What would happen if you completely took away the dream of the GOAL and simply left the feeling, the emotion, or the secure idea of peace?

Today, this is your goal. Even if you only have a few minutes, think about what you have considered as your biggest dreams in life and reduce them down to a feeling that they would provide. Once you do this, release the dream attached to the feeling and simply begin to ask Spirit to lead you to the feeling, instead.

See how your life immediately begins to change!


This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Screen Shot 2015-12-28 at 8.42.10 AMPlease be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in January 2016!


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What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

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If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

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