Everyone hates rejection. Coming in a close second is the feeling of maybe being rejected and maybe being approved. How many of you have applied for something (loan, school, jobs) and spent the next month anxiously anticipating if you were good enough, right enough, liquid enough, or adequate enough to receive that letter of approval?
I have experienced this feeling a thousand times. If you are an artist, writer, actor, or in any area of the arts in which you have to be judged or auditioned to receive jobs, you probably experience this feeling almost every day. The subconscious reason I chose some of my careers is to get over my fear of rejection. At this point, I’m almost able to release my fears to the greater good and relinquish the idea that I have any kind of mental or physical power to turn the tide in my direction.
Your only job and my only job is to do your part in the creative process: plant the seed, stay positive, and continue to move forward on a path of growth. All else is up to the Powers that Be. I don’t need to name what these powers are, because they really have no name. You can call your personal idea of power and source anything you want. You can even call it luck. However, what you can’t do is manipulate it.
Almost every fear comes down to this one ugly idea: rejection. If you have been adopted at birth, had rough beginnings with parents or guardians, were an outcast or different as a child, you probably experiences more of these feelings than most people.
These kinds of rejection feelings come from a deep feeling of abandonment, an empty space never filled by love at the beginning stages of life. This is called Anxious Attachment. This anxiousness is one reason you get in relationships too quickly or at the first sign of someone wanting or approving in you. Then, you only find out later that this person—who says he or she loves you—is actually a narcissist, or worse, a hateful letch who has gracefully discerned your neediness only to abuse it.
This happens more than you can possibly imagine. In my Life Coaching business, I see people who have Anxious Attachment Disorder and have been in a string of horrible relationships. They come to me to get out of their desperate attempt to fill a gaping hole that never seems to be able to attain enough love. I get it. I’m the poster child for this kind of behavior. I’m also here to tell you there are answers and there are ways to get over this gnawing, aching feeling.
The story of your life, everything you embark upon in the future, choose from now on, and even eliminate in your life starts in your mind. The mind is a powerful source of energy. (Noticed I didn’t say brain. The Mind and the brain are two very difference sources.)
The brain is the processor of thought. The Mind is All Creative Thought in you and in the universe. When we tap into the Creative Mind in our quiet and contemplative times, we experience a complete download of loving, peaceful, and powerful ideas that can lead us to our human purpose and ultimately to joy and peace.
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