Tag: Friendship

Gain the Support You Need

Not a day goes by when someone I know needs a helping hand, a shoulder to lean on, or a compassionate ear to listen. In these times I’m glad I can be there.

Often, though, these same people who are always present for those in need, do not have a person he or she can call on and be completely honest and organic. How do you find that one person who we can lean on in times of great need?

First of all, you don’t choose this person. This person is given to you by the universe. It is your choice, however, to discern who God has blessed you with to make your life easier, more blessed, and more prosperous.

These people are in my estimation angels on earth. Here are a few signs you can use to help you discover who the Universe has sent to your life for times like these:

  1. This person came into your life through no cause of your own. You met in a strange and unlikely situation.
  2. You didn’t even realize it, but suddenly you were good friends.
  3. Synchronistic things happen in your lives all the time to bring you back into each others lives.
  4. This person will be there, even when you are not watching for him or her. These angels tend to watch over your life like an omniscient, sentient being and know when you are in need.
  5. You often hear from them without you reaching out.
  6. They don’t make you feel guilty about your friendship and the amount of time you spend together. They simply are there in some way when you need them.
  7. You sometimes think or dream about this person when you are in deliberation about a strong life situation.
  8. Lastly, this person is compassionate and nonjudgmental, never giving an opinion unless you ask.

Above are the signs that I would attribute to my personal angel on earth. She exhibits love and support through every stage of my life.

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What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

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If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

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Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

 

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People Movin’ Out, People Movin’ In! #friendship #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

Nothing makes me reflect on my life more than a death. Second to that, which is similar to death, a dear friend departing my life for no apparent reason.

After a breakup with my last partner, I haven’t seen him or heard from him for 2-3 years. Yesterday, a childhood friend who lived on the same street as me growing up in Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania, posted a picture on Facebook of her and her husband having dinner with her 25-year old son, daughter-in-law (two people I used to sing with in a band), and my ex holding hands with one of my first good friends in Nashville. It was not just a small picture; it was a huge picture that filled a third of my screen.

Double-take. What? How can this be?

I spent half of the morning trying to figure out how that picture came to be and how someone from my childhood could be that close to my ex in a picture! Honestly, I took the picture to my mother and sister and showed them the photo. They, too, were astonished. “What?” we all clamored.

My friend from childhood finally responded to an urgent email. It turns out that her daughter-in-law met my ex briefly through me. But my childhood friend had no idea how my ex and her family all became such good friends. I supposed I may never know. I’m okay with that. I mean, what business is it of mine?

I haven’t even thought about my ex for a couple of years, after he told me in the shower on Valentine’s day that he didn’t know if I was the right person for him and was moving out the next day. After that incident, I thought, he didn’t deserve my time or any space in my mind.

That evening, as I was discussing the day’s events with my prayer partner, we talked about what metaphor this event might be showing me. We decided that this picture was just a circumstance, perhaps a test to get my attention off of what was important to my life. The only person who could breathe life into any circumstance for me is actually ME. So, if I let go of making something of the picture, the circumstance would have no life. Also, if I need to know more, I will certainly know more.

I think about friendships and how they come and go quite so often. I am intrigued by the intricate weave of love and dissent that happens in life that pulls us in and then literally removes us from each other’s lives. We only find out later that all happened for a divine reason. Who is the master of this Divine Puppet Act? Are we socially responsible for what happens in the ether that has every meeting of the minds perfectly defined so that all will make sense?

I know this with certainty: In my life I have seen many people come and go. One time I had a best friend not return my calls for a long time. His wife told me that he didn’t want to speak with me. He never responded to my letters I wrote (1990s). But, later, after my best friend divorced his wife and had raised four children, I discover from Facebook again (thank-you Facebook) out that my friend’s wife had devised the entire ordeal. She intercepted my phone calls and my mail. He thought I simply gave up on our friendship.

After 20 years we are back to being good friends again. I don’t know if anything will make up for those lost years, but embracing him again after so many years felt like a divine relief. Why did this happen? Why was I supposed to lose my best and dearest friend for so long?

These kinds of things have happened over and over again to me. Most times, now, I simply shrug my shoulders and think, I’ll know when I know. We simply have to let the universe rotate crops, as it were.

We only have room for so many people in our lives. Perhaps, we have much more to understand, learn and accomplish than we think. It takes a village, sometimes, to learn a lesson. I think, in my case with friendships, it has taken three villages, a small city, and 10,000 friendships.

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I’ve been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?cropped-cropped-6009Color1001.jpg

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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The Gift of Friendship: Love by Any Other Name! #spiritualprincipal #friendship #SOM #spirituality

Only one Love exists in the world. That Love is the perfect relationship emanating from first Cause through and as God. When we share this kind of love, we ultimately share the greatest gift that can be given in the world: right relationship.

In other languages, there are many different words for love. In Spanish I can think of four words that show different levels of love and commitment in order of their intensity: gustarse, querer, amar, and encantarse. In these examples we have the love of enjoying something, friendship based love, the love of family, and the love of an intimate partner.

In English we do not have a perfect way of differentiating the kinds of love we have for each other or a word for the varying ranges of enjoyment we feel for things. We have just one word for the ultimate in all of it, and we all seem to use the word Love randomly and without much thought.

It is only in the moment of intimacy that we understand the kind of love we speak about, and being “in love.” The only reason why we differentiate it in that situation is because we do not want it to me, “I love you, buddy!”

But, how much difference should there be in the true essence of love, God love—the Spiritual Love that connects all of us to God? The Love as God is the only kind of love that really matters in relationship, because it is the only unchangeable, immutable love that exists.

I recently noticed in my own past intimate relationships, how love seemed to move from impervious intensity to a lackadaisical malaise of inconsistency, which did not serve either partner well. Ultimately, this lack of immutable love is what destroyed relationship. In my recapitulation of old love, I had to wonder if I have ever really loved any intimate partner—or anyone—for that matter.

We know what we want in intimate relationship is more like an enduring friendship, more like the kind of love that a mother has for child, or the kind of unconditional love that we share with our spiritual friends and ministers. This kind of love seems to transcend bad and good times and considers mistakes as a part of relationship, easily forgiven.

I recently met a person who quickly became a prayer partner because our spiritual beliefs were so similar. I noticed that the more time we spent in prayer, the more I have learned to love this individual in a deeper, more profound way. I realized that if I had the opportunity to plan my life with this person in it, I would certainly be a part of that dream as long as I could. This is love has the intensity of a spirituality and has the strongest foundation we can create in relationship. When we encounter this kind of love, it balances our humanness, friendships, and intimacy in a new way.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Screen Shot 2015-12-28 at 8.42.10 AMSeven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in January 2016!

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I’ve been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

* * *

A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…cropped-cropped-6009Color1001.jpg

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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