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Keep Searching for the Truth Until You Find It! #relationshipadvice #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

One of my molars had been diagnosed as having a cracked root on September 22, 2014. As a result, I was sent to a specialist who would extract the tooth and then implant a new root for a false one that would replace my molar. The process took almost a year before I was able to go to a dentist to get fitted for an abutment and a cap. I was happy the struggle was finally over, because after about 25 hours in the dentist chair, anyone would be satisfied to have a blank space in his mouth finally filled with a $6000 tooth.

Screen Shot 2016-05-11 at 10.04.32 AMTwo months later, I went back to the dentist to get my teeth cleaned. He found a crack in the new tooth. After the diagnoses of 3 different kinds of doctors, they realized that the foundation, the actual implant was in the wrong place to support the abutment and cap. They began to drill out the tooth. The screw head broke. I had to go to another specialist who used a special microscope and drill to get the screw out (3 hours). Finally I’m back to square one. Very very long story shortened, yesterday, I was finally going to get my bridge. (I had decided against getting another implant and went for the easier fix.)

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As I drove out of my parking lot to go the appointment, I began to tear up. Finally, after all of this time I was going to have working teeth again. I’d be able to eat without pain and quit having to dissect my mouth after each meal for all remaining food particulates.

I get to the dentist’s office, sit in the chair, and my tooth is being prepared for the new crown, when the dentist discovers that the new tooth has a crack in it. I leave with no tooth again.

The night before I had prayed that everything about the tooth would go perfectly. I trusted that Spirit would lead me to the right and perfect procedure. Even though I had faith in my prayer, I left the dentist’s parking lot distraught and depressed. As I drove down the road I remembered something that I often tell my clients:

If you search for Truth in the Now, you will always find it.

On the way home from the dentist, this is what I heard in my heart when I asked why I didn’t get my tooth: “The nerves in the two adjacent teeth that had to be cut down to accommodate the bridge were still too sensitive for the crowns.”

That night as I drank some cold milk, I ended up with a severe toothache that lasted about an hour from sensitivity, proving to my mind that Spirit had been looking out for me. Truth was there even before I prayed. What wasn’t there to the greatest degree was trust. I was too frustrated to imagine that God still had my back on this one.

Much of life, everyday, is about trusting that the power of the earth and the universal creative power, has the intelligence to grow a seed into a plant—basically and metaphorically. Everything in life starts out as a seed thought and ends up using the energy of the Universe to manifest to full fruition. Our trust in this energy can either gather strength to complete the task or it can gather negativity that will continually to reduce the rate of growth toward completion.

I liken this to planting a sunflower seed. If you do not protect the ground where you planted the seed, a bird might end up eating the seed.

You plant the sunflower in a pot this time and cover it until you see a plant. You tend to the plant until it is an inch high. You plant it in the ground, but forget to water it. It dies.

You plant the sunflower seed again and this time you let it grow until six leaves have appeared. The roots are strong, the plant has the strength to survive the transplant, so you proceed to planting it in your garden. This time the plant grows high and mighty.

The seed was always the same. The idea of the plant growing was always the same. You simply didn’t understand the truth of the Law. You didn’t know how much of the process was your responsibility. Do we just think seed thoughts and sit on the couch and do nothing? No, we must implement the thoughts and water them with positive thinking and all the work needed to create the dream.

We are co-creators on earth. We are not magicians.

As co-creators we have to allow our helper, Spirit Creator, to do much of the work that humans cannot do. Humans can plant a seed. But, at no time have humans ever had the power to make or create a plant from a seed. That job is nature’s miraculous part. But without our tender thoughts of protection, the seed might never see the light of day.

Remember today that everything in life has begun as a seed and will continue to grow at the rate it needs to be strong. Sometimes, you just have to wait for the plant to be strong enough to bring forth beautiful flowers.

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If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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Our Words and the Power We Give Them! #Successthinking #InfiniteMind #spiritualadvice #stopnegativethinking#SOM

Everything that has ever happened in our lives has come from a thought. Your greatest accomplishments started as a seed thought in your mind. Even the greatest of tragedies probably began as a seed fear somewhere in your subjective mind. But how much power do we really have in our thoughts? Is our belief THE creative power, or does our belief in our thoughts ALLOW the creative power of God to flow in our lives?

I remember a long time ago, I was in an eight-year, very loving relationship; probably the most successful of all of my relationships. But, I was one to always fear that I didn’t deserve my good. I was an anxiously attached man, even though my relationship almost always looked very securely attached. In the back of my mind, I would always think of the worst-case scenarios happening to me and to my relationship.

To this end, my partner and I became friends with my ex from my former relationship, after his very sad divorce. Somewhere in my mind I kept thinking that my current, loving partner would fall in love with my ex. I remember telling myself, “This is a crazy thought.” But, about one year later, after a tumultuous six months of fighting with a man, who seemed to morph into a mean person overnight, my thought manifested in my life in a huge and hurtful way.

Sometimes, I wonder if I helped create the affair between my ex and my current partner, or if I had an inclination or some insight that this possibility could happen. Nonetheless, when I think about the power of negative thought, this scenario rises to the top. I learned a great deal about myself and the illusion of a perfect relationship during those times.

Ernest Holmes, the father of the Centers of Spiritual Living, spent a great deal of time in his textbook called, The Science of Mind, explaining our part in the creative process. As practitioners of the truth, Holmes says, that we must hold our beliefs in what we desire as the most precious gifts. The extent of our belief is the amount of power we give to God to manifest in our lives. In other words, our words and the passion and belief we put behind our words are the “flood gates” that open to the power of creation working THROUGH US, AS US to manifest all good on this earth.

Listen to yourself today. What exactly are you believing for yourself and for those around you? Of the family member in the hospital, are you saying, “Poor, Mary, she is in so much pain and probably doesn’t have long to live!” When you could be saying, “Mary is whole and in the arms of Love, right now, and I’m knowing that she is comforted and she is getting the best care now!” Can you see the difference in a loving thought and a carefully worded prayer? One holds negativity, even though the thought is from a loving heart. The latter prayer opens the gates of heaven for the power of change to take hold.

Everything in our lives comes back to our Words and the Power we give Them!

You can find all of Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/  I guarantee that these self-help books and cookbooks will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels,  Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

 

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

If you are a gay man or woman, you may want to direct your gaze to my newest blog: Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. This blog is an extension of my Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/UncommonGaySpiritualWarrior/) and group meetings about the rare combination of spirituality and “being gay” defines the most important part of us, even in relationship. Join me at: http://uncommongayspiritualwarrior.blogspot.com/. 

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

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Five Steps to Avoiding Negativity #negativethoughts #anxiety #sadmemories

Here are five steps that will change your life, will dissolve any negative thinking that causes you anxiety, and will help you define a better and healthier lifestyle:

  1. Do your own thinking! Don’t let the world or anyone in your life think FOR you. We spend our lives being judged by others. Sometimes, we believe other’s judgments are the truth. What you believe about yourself matters. Other’s beliefs about you simply are not the truth. Everything you think about yourself will eventually find its way to the surface and express itself completely. So, if you let others judgments get inside your mind, you will eventually BE what other think you are.
  2. Back off! Step away from other’s lives and your problems. Take time to observe your problems and joys present right now. If you deal with issues from another person, see what the situation would feel like if you let go of expectations. Don’t expect anyone to change. Remember that everyone has a right to be miserable. You just don’t have to be miserable with him/her.
  3. Think about what you are saying YES to. Are you going on through life saying yes or agreeing with things that don’t resonate with your soul or ideals? If so, start saying no! Sometimes our curse in life is that we are too kind and people take advantage of us. If this is the case, usually our life load is heavier than others, making life more difficult to manage. Start saying no, when you simply don’t feel as if you need another thing to manage.
  4. Argue with your own negative attitude! When something anxious or debilitating goes through your mind, argue with it. You would not let others feed you the kinds of negative thoughts your own mind feeds you. So, why not argue with your own mind. What you will do is force yourself to make better, more accurate, assessments of reality by using self-inquiry.
  5. Learn HOW to think, not WHAT to think! This is the most important aspect of these five steps. In traditional religion, we are all taught that things are either bad or good. The laws of our country teach us what we should and shouldn’t do. Parents, family, and friends give us their opinions about what they think.

    So, basically, we are nudged into WHAT to think about life and ourselves. There is nothing autonomous or powerful about spending your life in other’s beliefs. Begin to understand yourself—your wants, your spiritual beliefs, and your truths. You will make great strides forward in your life, if you begin taking steps towards being a strong believer of your own truth. Then, it will be easier to walk in the pathway toward your perfect desires with strength and fortitude. You’ll be a better person for it!

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A Cookbook, a Novel, a Self-Help Book, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

If you are a gay man or woman, you may want to direct your gaze to my newest blog: Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. This blog is an extension of my Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/UncommonGaySpiritualWarrior/) and group meetings about the rare combination of spirituality and “being gay” defines the most important part of us, even in relationship. Join me at: http://uncommongayspiritualwarrior.blogspot.com/. 

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

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