Tag: Positive thinking

The Aftermath: What Happens Now?

Have you ever had something tragic or even magnificent happen then wonder: #What_Happens_Now in the #Syrian_aftermath?

After the U.S. bombed #Syria, I thought, what good could possibly happen from this knee-jerk reaction from 45? 

After any earthly disaster happens, we wonder how the world will respond. Typically, everyone gathers together the needed energy to rebuild and gets too it immediately. The U.S. saw more love and empathy during #9-11 than I’ve ever seen before in the country. From disaster came compassion for each other and strong sense of willingness to help and give of our time and energy to a greater cause. It’s as if within each individual is a power to revive and a survival instinct that is so powerful that is can get over just about any tragedy.

However, there is also an opposing force that each of has—probably because each response in us has an equal and opposite force—that leads us to the highest of highs and wonders just as often: How long will this good last? 

This kind of opposing force brings about anxiety and keeps us working, often too hard and too long to remain at homeostasis. We desire for good, but when it comes we try to force it to stay.

I had gone through this pattern in my own life. At 56, I’m  weary from the rollercoaster ride. The reason I’ve let go of this yoyo pattern is because I realize that nothing in life stays the same. Everything changes every moment of every day. We have little control of anything.

We do, however, have control over how we REACT to life events.

As someone who has lived a life full of great highs and, also, many negative forces, especially as a child; I realize that even the worst of negativity can be used to drive us toward our highest enlightenment. I have friends who have gone through even worse times than I and are highly successful businessmen and women.

When I ask them why their childhood didn’t affect them negatively in life, they will often reply: “Oh, I was angry for a long time. But, I realized that if I wanted life to change, I was going to have to do. I was going to have to study harder, work harder, and draw positivity to me.”

How do we demagnetize ourselves from negative attraction to positive? 

We are polarized into positive and negative thinking from our thoughts. The theory and the solution is as simple as this:

If you can avoid thinking about the negative—even the smallest negative thinking such as judgment of others—you will immediately begin to attract positivity into your life. 

Besides changing your negative thinking, which is a difficult process for most, we also must learn to dream positivity! We can’t just hope for financial prosperity. We must believe that it is possible for us, open our heart to being led toward prosperity, then take the frightening steps out of our paranoid and fearful past into the light.

The solution is in the One Mind, which you are a part of. If you get quiet and listen hard enough and long enough, you will get an answer.

Remember this story:

The Parable of the Persistent Widow

18 Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. He said: “In a certain town there was a judge who neither feared God nor cared what people thought. And there was a widow in that town who kept coming to him with the plea, ‘Grant me justice against my adversary.’

“For some time he refused. But finally he said to himself, ‘Even though I don’t fear God or care what people think, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won’t eventually come and attack me!’”

And the Lord said, “Listen to what the unjust judge says.

And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? I tell you, he will see that they get justice, and quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?”

This is a metaphor for positive thinking. If you continue to tell yourself that you are made for prosperity, even in the face of “NO YOU ARE NOT,” then you are on the road to freedom from negative thinking.

Once the negative thoughts that manifest in your physical life are gone, then the only thoughts left to manifest will be—must be—positive! That’s the law of the universe.

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Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books!

You don’t get to this voice if reason or recognize it unless you spend time with yourself in silence, asking yourself important self-talk questions. This is like dating. You must get to know the voice of the Spirit by spending time in meditation and silence. This is the only I know to clearly download the power of wisdom and recognize the voice—IN TIMES OF TRAUMA—that is always directing YOU into safety!

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Keep Searching for the Truth Until You Find It! #relationshipadvice #spiritualadvice #personalpower #newthought

One of my molars had been diagnosed as having a cracked root on September 22, 2014. As a result, I was sent to a specialist who would extract the tooth and then implant a new root for a false one that would replace my molar. The process took almost a year before I was able to go to a dentist to get fitted for an abutment and a cap. I was happy the struggle was finally over, because after about 25 hours in the dentist chair, anyone would be satisfied to have a blank space in his mouth finally filled with a $6000 tooth.

Screen Shot 2016-05-11 at 10.04.32 AMTwo months later, I went back to the dentist to get my teeth cleaned. He found a crack in the new tooth. After the diagnoses of 3 different kinds of doctors, they realized that the foundation, the actual implant was in the wrong place to support the abutment and cap. They began to drill out the tooth. The screw head broke. I had to go to another specialist who used a special microscope and drill to get the screw out (3 hours). Finally I’m back to square one. Very very long story shortened, yesterday, I was finally going to get my bridge. (I had decided against getting another implant and went for the easier fix.)

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As I drove out of my parking lot to go the appointment, I began to tear up. Finally, after all of this time I was going to have working teeth again. I’d be able to eat without pain and quit having to dissect my mouth after each meal for all remaining food particulates.

I get to the dentist’s office, sit in the chair, and my tooth is being prepared for the new crown, when the dentist discovers that the new tooth has a crack in it. I leave with no tooth again.

The night before I had prayed that everything about the tooth would go perfectly. I trusted that Spirit would lead me to the right and perfect procedure. Even though I had faith in my prayer, I left the dentist’s parking lot distraught and depressed. As I drove down the road I remembered something that I often tell my clients:

If you search for Truth in the Now, you will always find it.

On the way home from the dentist, this is what I heard in my heart when I asked why I didn’t get my tooth: “The nerves in the two adjacent teeth that had to be cut down to accommodate the bridge were still too sensitive for the crowns.”

That night as I drank some cold milk, I ended up with a severe toothache that lasted about an hour from sensitivity, proving to my mind that Spirit had been looking out for me. Truth was there even before I prayed. What wasn’t there to the greatest degree was trust. I was too frustrated to imagine that God still had my back on this one.

Much of life, everyday, is about trusting that the power of the earth and the universal creative power, has the intelligence to grow a seed into a plant—basically and metaphorically. Everything in life starts out as a seed thought and ends up using the energy of the Universe to manifest to full fruition. Our trust in this energy can either gather strength to complete the task or it can gather negativity that will continually to reduce the rate of growth toward completion.

I liken this to planting a sunflower seed. If you do not protect the ground where you planted the seed, a bird might end up eating the seed.

You plant the sunflower in a pot this time and cover it until you see a plant. You tend to the plant until it is an inch high. You plant it in the ground, but forget to water it. It dies.

You plant the sunflower seed again and this time you let it grow until six leaves have appeared. The roots are strong, the plant has the strength to survive the transplant, so you proceed to planting it in your garden. This time the plant grows high and mighty.

The seed was always the same. The idea of the plant growing was always the same. You simply didn’t understand the truth of the Law. You didn’t know how much of the process was your responsibility. Do we just think seed thoughts and sit on the couch and do nothing? No, we must implement the thoughts and water them with positive thinking and all the work needed to create the dream.

We are co-creators on earth. We are not magicians.

As co-creators we have to allow our helper, Spirit Creator, to do much of the work that humans cannot do. Humans can plant a seed. But, at no time have humans ever had the power to make or create a plant from a seed. That job is nature’s miraculous part. But without our tender thoughts of protection, the seed might never see the light of day.

Remember today that everything in life has begun as a seed and will continue to grow at the rate it needs to be strong. Sometimes, you just have to wait for the plant to be strong enough to bring forth beautiful flowers.

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You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

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If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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The Battleground of Your Mind #spiritualadvice #DivineMind #ScienceofMind #SOM #SpiritualLiving

Never has there been a great battle than in the mind of man. Most people wrestle with thought almost the entire day. The reason is that the mental chatter in our minds does not reflect what we believe about ourselves or about the world. The mental chatter in your mind is an expression, instead, of social consciousness combined with the experiences of the past. Nowhere, in this scenario, is there a place of peace.

So, we must take each thought into captivity and spend the day knowing our best, seeing beauty, and ferreting through the mental chatter to dispel it.

You might be saying, “That sounds like a job that is too difficult for me!” And, you know, you may be correct. This job takes diligence and a real desire for change in your life. When you know you desire to see and experience a difference resolve, then you must change the place where all of life begins: IN THE MIND!

Let’s look at an example of changing a negative thought:

You having been considering a change in work, because you no longer feel happy in your job. You have sifted through the many possibilities of what you would like to do and landed on a career that you believe would satisfy your needs! This job will require you to go back to night school and keep the job you don’t like for one year. You wrestle with yourself. Your mind says, “You are too old to make change. You are not smart enough to go back to school. Or simply don’t have the energy to do both!”

What do you do to counteract the negative chatter?

  1. First, begin to look around you and say this: “This is what I know! God is all in all. God is the sky. God is the smallest particle in physics. God is the ever-expanding universe. AND, since I am made in the essence of God, I am a small portion of this Divine Good. I know, that even the smallest portion of Good is completely, unequivocally Good. It must be so! Good cannot produce negativity. Only negativity can produce negativity.”
  2. You will notice that as you begin to speak to your own mind this truth, that the chatter stops. Why is this so? This is true because when your conscious mind begins to work and express, then the listening and the believing part of the mind stops. If you truly believe what you confess to be true, as you say it, then both thinking and listening processes cannot operate at the same time.
  3. So, all that is left to do is to actively connect your mind and life to a power greater than yours—The Divine Law of Life! When you plug into this Divine Electricity, you automatically become empowered, like a light bulb turns on when a lamp is plugged in. If you plug into source, encouraging thoughts and positive dreams have a chance at surviving in a world that consistently proclaims: It’s either you OR me.

New Thought believes that this world needs the power of you AND me. In this positive world, all is possible.

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You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

 

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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