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How Much Do You Think You Deserve? #spirituality #SOM #Prosperity #lovelessons

To “deserve something” would mean that a reward exists at the end of the rainbow for a certain behavior you have done. If you believe that Spirit works like this, then you are sorely mistaken. Only with the limitations of your own mind would you reduce God to a law that only allows you to receive if you follow a certain set of guideline. We can see this is NOT the case all around us. Many not-so-worthy people receive abundance all of the time. So, we would be remiss to believe or wait for our goodness to come as a result of good behavior.

First of all, you are made of the goodness of Creator. The very thing that IS all that supports you—the air, the ocean, the sun, and the food you eat are all made of Source. So, when you breath, eat, and bask in the sun, you partake in something that you have probably not worked for. When birds fly to your front stoop to get the breadcrumbs you put out, they don’t think: Alas, I’ve gotten my reward from heaven! No, they simply partake in the manna fed them by Source. What I’m getting at is that only you can limit what God give you by your thoughts. Abundance is all around you. Where is your share?

If you think you are bad and deserve nothing good, you will certainly attract negative things to your life. If you think you are royalty, you will probably end receiving royal behavior from someone and have riches. Why do you think that rich people stay rich, even if they lose all of their money? Prosperity is a state of mind, not necessarily the causal effect of working hard—though working hard can certainly prosper you.

Here are a couple of negative scenarios that people fall into:

  1. I must work 12 hours a day to make a living, so that I will not go hungry and will have enough for retirement.
  2. Everything I try, seems to fail. I put forth great effort into life, but God never seems to reward me with success.
  3. I live my life paying one bill, then the next one comes. All I do is work. I never get to live my life.
  4. I have bank problems, suffer from illness, and my family stresses me all day. When am I going to find peace?

Okay, so you think you can’t have peace or that peace is not an option for you in every case above. What would happen if you made room for a dream or a vision that included you getting what you need to have a joyful and peaceful life? Let’s just start with that simple thought. Everything in this world starts with a seed thought. We plant the seeds; God grows the trees. So, maybe all that you are responsible for is: taking time to believe you deserve good, to dream your good, and to take steps forward—in faith—knowing your good is already waiting for you.

Instead of worry and anxiety today, try dreaming something wonderful!


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Hidden By Regrets #regret

Lost and lonely, sometimes we find ourselves in a mire of regret and disappointing thoughts about the past. Often, these thoughts and ideations cloud the good in our lives, and more importantly, don’t give us the chance to see our future as different and wonderful. By example, if you had been dumped on by an intimate partner and can’t get over the hurt, or worse yet, the love; you may not see the new person you are destined to meet—standing right next to you. Who could? He was hidden by your smoke screen of regret.

The truth is that you are not your situation or your story! Say that with me: “I AM NOT MY SITUATION OR MY STORY!”

You are spirit, housed in body, made to have every good thing here on this earth. The only person that stifles your receiving is you, right now. Every morning, I have to clear my mind of all the “stuff” that fills my head, just to open up to the ideas and love and wisdom that spirit wants to download into my mind. If I don’t make room in meditation, this information goes to a holding place or sometimes is completely lost because of my lack of desire for change and guidance. Meditation gives me inner poise and peace!

I don’t want to be that person who looks back at life and says, “I truly missed my calling. I heard the voice of spirit tell me my truth. I simply didn’t answer.”

All you have to do is listen. Then once you hear the voice of peace, just simply move forward one step at a time. You don’t need the Master Plan. God has that plan set out for you. Simply follow the path on your plan day to day. I enjoy the idea of the 12-step programs. You have to live with sobriety one day, rather one minute, at a time. That’s how a spiritual life being led by God is. You can’t over think it. You can’t over achieve. You simply move where PEACE leads you.

I have many references in my life where this has been true. Most recently was the book I just got published. Many people would have thought I was a fool to release my book publishing deal to set out on a path that seemed to lead to nowhere fast. The truth was, it took almost two years for any kind of super vision to appear about the end product. I had an idea, albeit an inkling, what would happen, but I never really saw the end product in my mind, until I added the picture I took in St. Thomas last month to the cover of the book. The moment was in a butterfly sanctuary. Butterflies are a sign of transformation and a personal symbol of growth. When I saw the most amazing butterfly light on a pink hydrangea, I knew this was the moment. I took the picture.

When I returned home, this picture became my guide and symbol of success. When I had the opportunity to help create the cover of the book, I knew this picture would be the perfect finishing touch. Three years ago, I didn’t even know I’d be taking a cruise to St. Thomas. Yet, the vision and the wisdom of God led me on a path toward finding the perfect symbol for my three years of searching for my Authentic Self. I hope you get a chance to enjoy the book. You can now find it on Amazon and Amazon Kindle. Below are the links.

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