I could easily say that I have waited until this very moment to believe that I truly deserve happiness. I am not just talking about wealth, prosperity, gain of any kind in business or success in career. I Am not even speaking about relationship happiness, because all of these aforementioned things are temporary and ephemeral. In looking for happiness, I seemed to have checked behind every door, before I opened the one door that truly contained all of the great joy I could ever muster. That door was to my own heart.
Yes, I sincerely believe that the only place we can experience happiness is on the peaceful wave of total trust in God. This means releasing fear of all kind.
When I let go of fear, I can actually felt abundance grow organically from within. Life was waiting for me to get rid of the hindrances to my personal growth. When I trusted Spirit completely, I released control of the world, the responsibility of the next moment, anything outside of my next conscious breath, basically.
So, you may be asking yourself: What am I waiting for? If happiness is that simple, why have I waited so long to open the floodgates to it?
The truth about letting go of fear is that most people have no clue as to how to begin releasing the only friend that has stayed along for the ride their entire life. Let’s face it; fear has become a constant companion and something that you can trust to be there when everyone else and all else sleeps. It stays awake with you. It binge-eats with you. It complains when you do not have enough money for bills. It even bitches when a relationship has gone awry. Basically, fear is the one remaining, fundamental constant that has been with you since you could remember Mom turning out the overhead lights above your crib and saying goodnight.
On that momentous night, fear met your anxiety in the dark. It introduced itself as something scary and oblique. It took many years and many head-on collisions with it, before you realized when you stood in the light, the fear had little to no power. You knew, deep inside, that if you did not let it go, it would take over your life, even in the light.
So, slowly, you began to release it. Bit by bit. Step by step. Then, suddenly, you realized that you even weighed less as a result of not carrying it around with you day in and day out. Nothing felt better than something. Nothing, though it scared the living hell out of you, felt better than the burdens of fear. Yes, nothing. “What is another word for nothing going on in your mind?”
Finally, you took another step forward, beyond thinking nothing and decided to “do nothing.” You waited for life to just simply BE. In that moment, in the waiting, you realized that you were powerless to the one constant in life—CHANGE.
That’s what you really feared, wasn’t it? In that one moment you let go, you were filled with the agonizing, yet thrilling drop toward Spirit’s open arms. Alas, peace met you and took a seat inside your heart.
Had you known that the only fertilizer that you needed to grow every dream, including personal relationships was peace, you would have invited it in a long time ago.
This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.
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