Tag: releasing control

Settling into Happiness #peace #SpiritualPrinciple #lettinggooffear #spirituality #deservinghappiness

I could easily say that I have waited until this very moment to believe that I truly deserve happiness. I am not just talking about wealth, prosperity, gain of any kind in business or success in career. I Am not even speaking about relationship happiness, because all of these aforementioned things are temporary and ephemeral. In looking for happiness, I seemed to have checked behind every door, before I opened the one door that truly contained all of the great joy I could ever muster. That door was to my own heart.

Yes, I sincerely believe that the only place we can experience happiness is on the peaceful wave of total trust in God. This means releasing fear of all kind.

When I let go of fear, I can actually felt abundance grow organically from within. Life was waiting for me to get rid of the hindrances to my personal growth. When I trusted Spirit completely, I released control of the world, the responsibility of the next moment, anything outside of my next conscious breath, basically.

So, you may be asking yourself: What am I waiting for? If happiness is that simple, why have I waited so long to open the floodgates to it?

The truth about letting go of fear is that most people have no clue as to how to begin releasing the only friend that has stayed along for the ride their entire life. Let’s face it; fear has become a constant companion and something that you can trust to be there when everyone else and all else sleeps. It stays awake with you. It binge-eats with you. It complains when you do not have enough money for bills. It even bitches when a relationship has gone awry. Basically, fear is the one remaining, fundamental constant that has been with you since you could remember Mom turning out the overhead lights above your crib and saying goodnight.

On that momentous night, fear met your anxiety in the dark. It introduced itself as something scary and oblique. It took many years and many head-on collisions with it, before you realized when you stood in the light, the fear had little to no power. You knew, deep inside, that if you did not let it go, it would take over your life, even in the light.

So, slowly, you began to release it. Bit by bit. Step by step. Then, suddenly, you realized that you even weighed less as a result of not carrying it around with you day in and day out. Nothing felt better than something. Nothing, though it scared the living hell out of you, felt better than the burdens of fear. Yes, nothing. “What is another word for nothing going on in your mind?”

Finally, you took another step forward, beyond thinking nothing and decided to “do nothing.” You waited for life to just simply BE. In that moment, in the waiting, you realized that you were powerless to the one constant in life—CHANGE.

That’s what you really feared, wasn’t it? In that one moment you let go, you were filled with the agonizing, yet thrilling drop toward Spirit’s open arms. Alas, peace met you and took a seat inside your heart.

Had you known that the only fertilizer that you needed to grow every dream, including personal relationships was peace, you would have invited it in a long time ago.

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.

Screen Shot 2015-12-28 at 8.42.10 AMPlease be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in January 2016!

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I’ve been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?cropped-cropped-6009Color1001.jpg

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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LETTING GO: Learning to Be Like a Child at Christmas #spiritualprincipal #divineMind #SOM #Christmas

This year was about letting go of my control of the things I have no business trying to control. This Christmas Eve and day was a prime example of the lessons learned by this hard truth. I allowed myself to observe and yet be a part of everything in my world. I watched those who tried to control without success. I saw in the stressed eyes of those who desired a perfect outcome, helplessness in the face of difficulty. And, also, too, I noticed the people who really had let go and allowed for the perfect and best to manifest in their lives, simply by being in the middle of the NOW with all of its great mystery and loving energy.

My holiday began by taking a break from my Blog, which I almost never do. Instead, I read, snuggled up with a cup of hot coffee and my beautiful puppy, Coco. I then did some yoga. I shared brunch with a dear friend who told me he had no one to have Christmas with. Initially, he rejected my offer to get together, but later he accepted. This was the absolute perfect way to begin my day. Nothing was planned. Everything felt organic and perfect.

After lunch, I decided to see if anyone needed an Uber ride at Christmas. I ended up picking up the greatest mother and daughter and bringing them to a beach brunch with family. Our conversation was lovely spontaneous and insightful.

When I got home, my sister and I did some final preparations for gag gifts, which is a family tradition in our home. We laughed and carried on like little children. From there, I said a goodnight prayer with my sweet friend, David in Dublin, before his Christmas night was over.

Soon, the immediate family began to arrive at our home. All of the food manifested aromas that would make one want to jump out of her skin and into the table, head first. After the feast was completely ready and piping hot, 10 of us, said a blessing about everything we were grateful for.

This touched the deepest place in my heart. Most especially, my sister Lori’s prayer, “I’m so thankful to God for bringing the whole family together in Florida. You have no idea how much love I feel with you here now. I feel so blessed and so joyous.” I absolutely knew what she meant, as the struggles of leaving my home base of 27 years to spend my life now with my immediate family surrounding me appeared so different, wonderful, and perfect, all at the same time. I would have never guessed I would be here in this moment.

But, the best part of the evening was relinquishing my 25-year job of being Santa to my nephew. I got to sit on the couch and completely enjoy the evening. Again, letting go played the best part of life. The family laughed, cried, and had the best time we had ever had together.

Thank you, God!

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This year, if you desire to commit to a change for a New Year’s Resolution, do it with your MIND first. Remember, as in the title of my new book coming out just in time to help you with this (in January)… lol… that all change happens in your mind, first. You must change your Old Story, to make a consistent and long lasting change in Your Life.cover pdf2

Please be looking for “YOUR NEW STORY, YOUR NEW LIFE, Unlock Your Seven Spiritual Discoveries” in bookstores and in online bookstores in January 2016!

***

Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I’ve been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?cropped-cropped-6009Color1001.jpg

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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Hard to Let Go #treatment #duality #DivineMind #ScienceofMind #SpiritualLiving

I had always thought the key to creating in life was to work hard. From the time I was a young boy, I studied hard, got straight A’s, went to college, and forced my way through closed doors. I had always felt this was the best modality, as that was what I saw around me in the effective examples of those who were bosses and executives.

However, as I began to start my own creative business, I realized that creation is much different than pushing your way to the top in a nine-to-five world. In fact, much of the creative process is about doing the hard work, and then LETTING GO!

What does this mean to someone who has spent the last three years writing a novel?

Coming from someone who had done this 14 times and pushed and pushed my way into agencies and publishing companies, I realized that nothing good comes from pushing—NOTHING! The best resolve I have had over the years has come unexpectedly and by being prepared. In other words, my job as a creator is to create. So, my advice to you is this:

  • Do you job!
  • Sow your seeds!
  • When opportunity knocks, BE PREPARED!

Once you present yourself, your product, or your art, then the rest is up to someone else, usually. So, how can any form of force, albeit even mental force, be of any help? It truly cannot. In fact, this kind of mental force will only cause disappointment in the end, especially if the end result does not go in your direction, which is the case most of the time in the creative arts.

The best resolve in this situation is to always be prepared, continue to create, and LET IT GO!

I may be speaking to the choir, but almost every day I face the possibility of rejection. I go to an audition. I do the best I can. And, the rest is NOT up to me. In fact, even after I get an audition, my part of the film may end up on the editing floor. Does it matter? In the end, no. I have done the job I was hired to do. My part is over.

The best advice I have ever gotten concerning life is that: We plant the seeds; God grows the tree.

You must be firm in your resolve to stay with this premise in every situation. You cannot force life to happen in any situation, no matter how strong-willed you think you are. Your will is often what is keeping your good from flowing easily to you!

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Are you in need of Life or Spiritual Coaching? I’ve been a life coach and clinical hypnotherapist and minister of New Thought for 25 years. I do my sessions online, so you can even have your session in bed, so that you can go directly to sleep during the hypnosis session. You must have a laptop or a notebook to do these sessions, either on Skype or Facetime. You can give me a call at 954-253-6493. My fee is $95 for an hour.

 

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You can find all of my Books by Category at http://www.bosebastian.com/new-page/ All of these books have been birthed from my own spiritual growth. I guarantee you’ll enjoy how each will help you maintain a positive mind, body, and spirit. Also, if you click on the Amazon site, you’ll see all of my 15 book— Cookbooks, Novels, Self-Help Books, a Yoga DVD! All great gifts from your friend—Bo Sebastian. Simply go to this link at www.Amazon.com or type in my name. Find great gifts for yourself, family members, and friends by supporting another friend in the process! Thank you.

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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