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The Secret to a Successful Life #Successthinking #InfiniteMind #spiritualadvice #diversity #SOM

Today’s lesson is about how to train your mind to THINK WITH POWER. First, you must understand that power exists in the mind. Proof of this very principle is in people we know who appear to have the power to manifest just about anything in their lives.

To the unwise eye, it would seem that these people are just lucky. But, to the man or woman who has eyes to see truth, we realize that these individuals have learned to use the power of their minds to manifest much good in their lives. Or, maybe, these individuals were given early opportunities to manifest with their minds, so they don’t doubt that they have the power to create empires with their ideas.

This same power in Mind is what we seek to understand, then to train ourselves to have and use!

We watch these motivational speakers with derision, sometimes, the most famous being Tony Robbins. He tells us that we, too, can create power and businesses and prosperity simply by believing in ourselves. We try it. And, then, we see no manifestation. Quickly, we give up; call him a charlatan, and continue to believe that we are simply unlucky individuals, never to have any good in life.

But the truth is that Divine Energy (that energy that is unshaped and formed) exists for ALL OF US and is waiting for EACH PERSON to make the mold for this energy to be pour into, like hot molten iron into ingots. The pig iron is like Divine Energy. The mold is your mind and the belief that you can create good in your life.

If you hold still long enough, this Divine Energy, which is for anyone to use, will fill your mold. If you come to this energy with a thimble, you will get a thimble’s worth of energy. If you come to it with a bathtub, you’ll get a larger amount of energy. This Divine Principle is simply for you to believe and trust that you have the power to shape unused energy into finite substance.

The Divine Principle behind this is Jesus’s teaching: “Ask and it shall be given unto you; knock and the door will be opened.” But you see, most of us sit in the bathtub of our belief, fill it with negativity, hoping for the energy of Good to fill it, when we have already filled our mold with our disparaging thoughts.

We must get out of the tub, to make room for Divine Energy to fill this Mold. And begin believing until we see the evidence appear. If you haven’t seen the evidence of your Mind Treatment, then you haven’t waited long enough.

You can’t plant a tomato seed and dig it up every morning, hoping to find tomatoes on the vine. You sow the seed (the thought) into the ground (your mind, the creative space that exists in each of our minds); then, the hard part, Divine Energy does its work.

That is to say, this creative energy, defining the mold, and believing in your truth are all examples of ACTIVE ENERGY.

We don’t sit in the tub hoping for blessings. We pray, knowing the truth, everyday.

  • We tend to the plant;
  • We water it with our good thoughts;
  • We wait unit roots unfold and the shoots of our thoughts appear above ground.

Even then, we must continue to care for the tender plant until it grows to full fruition; otherwise we will see no fruit.

You must activate Divine Energy for it to work in your favor. Plant the seed. Tend to the seed as it grows. And, eventually, it will bear fruit. It is that simple. It is the Law!

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The Secret: Don’t Be Attached to Results

I have spent much of my life working for something and have become completely attached to the result of that ephemeral thing happening. But just as life eludes us often, so life eluded me with this aspect of it.

I remember the first time I dreamed of writing a book. It felt like a pipe dream, until one day I bought a computer with the intention to write. I began with a chapter that I thought was chilling and wonderful. I shared it with a good friend. He was completely critical. I stopped writing for a short while.

I decided to get writing lessons, before I would try writing again. I did so and finished writing my first novel. I took it to a couple editors who tore it apart. It slaughtered my spirit once again. But this time, I had the courage to simply work through the changes and rewrite the book.

Once the book was finished, I began shopping the book for agents and publishers. After fifty or sixty rejection letters, I figured that the book wasn’t good enough. I decided to get more education. I went to writer’s conferences and got rewired for the business. I took a job in PR at a publishing company. I made friends with the editors and landed a job editing books.

After editing forty books, I felt as if I had a handle on the writing process. After trying to do public relations on twenty books, I had a handle on what it took to get a book from press to a reader’s hands.

I began to write my next novel. This time I felt confident that I could get a publisher. I had a very good plan. The novel was good. I found an agent fairly easily. He pitched it to every major publisher in New York. Everyone rejected it. I got a lot of praise for my writing, but no one liked it enough and thought it was marketable enough to publish it—bottom line—it didn’t come from authentic me.

Step three: writing a book that could be a Bestseller. Off to the bookstore again to read everything I could about writing a bestseller. I took another year to write a haunting mystery about a drug ring run by a matriarch and her gay son. Again, I had some great interest, but I didn’t get the big break I expected.

Finally after many daunting rejections, I went to a writer’s conference and read a short story that I wrote in about an hour in one of the classes. That short story led me to my first publishing deal with Bellebooks. There was no trying. It was simply laid before me.

I spent six years laboring over three novels and nothing but rejection letters piled up on my desk. But suddenly, when I least expected it, God finds a simple short story good enough to get a publisher to make me an offer on my first publishing deal.

When I had no attachments to what was happening; when I was prepared for my future but not knocking down doors to get it, when I was following my heart to visit an old friend and accompany her to a writer’s conference, success followed me.

I learned a lot from that long experience. I actually hung up on a literary agent a week ago, because I wasn’t willing to play publishing games and talk bullshit when I know the real story of success. My next book is God’s book.

I don’t doubt with anything in my heart that success is wrought with hard work and diligence and paying strong attention to the market and to your craft. But one thing is always missing when you play the game scientifically. You always forget that only with the hand of God can anything happen.

And if you are walking along a spiritual path, your growth is way more important to Spirit than any publishing deal. So, if you have to lose a deal to get stronger and gain depth of soul, be prepared to learn that lesson first. If you have to learn to give up the dream and work as a servant to someone to gain perspective on success, then you probably will find yourself waiting tables.

Success comes down to one word—God! He/She who waits on the Lord will find peace.


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