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Kindly Step to the Back of the Line!

The first idea that pops into my mind when I think of: “Kindly Step to the Back of the Line” is an incident that happened to me when I was 20, while standing in a long cue line. I waited for two painfully long hours to ride a roller coaster in the hottest of sun. As I got closer to the front of the line I heard two rabble rousing teenagers fighting, as one caught the other cutting in line.

As the attendant for the ride stepped away from his post—where he stopped and started the ride—a roller coaster slipped by. There were two roller coasters on the track at the same time. I’m sure the attendant assumed that the people on the tram that slipped by would simply get an extra ride while he dealt with the line cutters.

However, the unlikely happened. The tram ahead of the one that slipped by got stuck at the bottom of the first large hill of the roller coaster ride. When the second tram came crashing down the first hill, it collided with the one that was stuck. To all of our surprise, many people died right in front of us. 

I don’t ride roller coasters anymore, not because I’m afraid of that same thing happening. I simply despise waiting in lines. However, most of our lives are spent waiting for something. 

Think about it. We wait for:

  1. Our Pay Checks
  2. In Traffic
  3. For Our Children
  4. Our Partners
  5. For Food in a Restaurant
  6. For Food to Cook
  7. For Our Favorite Television Shows to Air…

Just to name a few.

What we don’t have to wait for is the Present Moment. The Now is always here—right here—waiting for Us to take notice. All we need to do is immerse our mind and attention on the present moment. This second holds all we need in this space of time.

Many people struggle with this Tibetan Buddhist Principal. When you think about it, you completely miss the present moment when you look back at the past and spend time waiting impatiently for the future.

I have found the most love, abundance, and incredible peace as I have let go of that which no longer serves me—especially the difficult past and even worse, spending a considerable amount of time hoping for things that simply are operating according to the law of growth (like plants, growth, maturity, client lists…). These all grow according to the organic laws of the universe. We don’t have to go into the ground and force anything to grow. All will grow in due time according to the Law.

If you release your anxiety from the past and the anxiety of waiting for your future plans to evolve, the Law of Love will produce all you need according to the forces of natural law in the perfect time.

You may be asking: But what about that moment when you waited for the roller coaster. Was that moment perfect for you? You watched 9 people die.

Yes, it was perfect for me. I had to see what could happen when you take your mind off of the now to tend to friction going on around you, things that are not really your business. I had to see for myself that the result of NOT PAYING ATTENTION IS DEADLY.

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Waiting… Wait… Keep on Waiting: AGGGHH!

Has life been a constant waiting game—for that important phone call, that new job, that business deal, and that all important wait—the money you need yesterday?

A recent article in The Guardian entitled:

“Poor people don’t plan long-term. We’ll just get our hearts broken”

speaks volumes. Is life supposed to be about waiting_impatiently or are we to have an important understanding about life that we haven’t yet understood? This morning I woke up and decided to sit quietly, because I noticed recently I have been contemplating poverty instead of prosperity, which is an old habit. I grew up poor, so the thoughts of loss and never having enough run through my veins. Often, I have to take a moment to process why.

As I sat quietly, I asked myself and the Universe the question: Why?

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Continued from above:

I start with some deep breaths, finding a way to open my heart to Truth, perhaps, I’m not aware of in my own mind. I let go of my arms, my legs, my face muscles, even the control of my breath and feel my body grow limp, in the arms of something much greater than I. This kind of Letting Go is imperative to reaching out of your humanness into a spiritual place that most of us are simply afraid of going.

For me, this has become my home—my comfort zone, my re-energizing space, my place of inquiry and recharging!

In this place, I began to feel interestingly and unusual sensation. I felt as if I was sitting in front of myself. It frightened me a little. So, I quickly pulled away. Then, I realized this was part of the process. I let go again and imagined that same feeling. It happened again. This time I stayed with it as long as I could. Inner guidance!

What I recognized was that I was being called to come out of my old thinking and look into the present moment, the prosperous place where there is no anxiety. The reason why this place felt unusual was because it held within it—complete peace, with no resistance.

Before I knew it, almost an hour had gone by. My dog began to whine, because it was time for Daddy to take him on his morning walk. I don’t ever need an alarm in the morning. Coco has the time firmly imbedded in his brain.

I was still fumbling around, half-wake and half-asleep as I walked down the corridor in front of my condo to get to the walkway for Coco to do his business. In my mind I was repeating my question to Spirit when I suddenly tripped and grabbed for the wall next to me. There, right by my shoulder, was a snail on the wall.

The day before I had seen 2 snails. As my fiancé and I often do, we look at our online resources to see if this is a Native America Totem or some known sign from the universe.

The meaning of snail for me was this:

a snail means that areas of one’s life are slow in moving together. On the positive side, the actual snail has determination and you may adhere to the development. 

A snail embodies your sensitivity and vulnerability. It means that you have the tendency to isolate yourself, and you would need a lot of perseverance and patience in order to change. This change will occur very slowly. The snail represents self-control and patience, because moving slow means planning and acting with caution.

To fall into a snail after I had just had the experience with two snails the day before, was just another sign of assurance that the message was the same: Be Patient!

I even felt a calm assurance as if an angel spoke to me and said: “You are going to be fine. This is just a time of waiting. Be patient. All will unfold in the perfect time!”

I share this because I know that many of you are experiencing this same feeling of impatience, especially about money and finance. I want you to know that as you read this,

even now, your heart is feeling lighter about your current situation. You are being led into the quiet, too, to get your special sign that all is well—always!

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You don’t get to this voice if reason or recognize it unless you spend time with yourself in silence, asking yourself important self-talk questions. This is like dating. You must get to know the voice of the Spirit by spending time in meditation and silence. This is the only I know to clearly download the power of wisdom and recognize the voice—IN TIMES OF TRAUMA—that is always directing YOU into safety!

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In Perfect Order, In the Perfect Time #waitinggame #relationshipadvice #spirituality #spiritualadvice #psychology

This is what I know: everything from the tiniest micro-cell to the unfolding and expanding universes is Spirit. You and I are made of the very substance of God. From the thought and expression of God, Spirit formed us in Its image. As the expression of God on this earth, we are creators in this microcosm, just as God is the creator of the Macrocosm of the Universes. If Spirit is interested in creating a mirror image of Itself in human form or in spirit form, then we would be inclined to believe that the power of the entire universe is completely invested in the forming, molding, and developing of mankind.

With this being said, why are we so anxious about life? If we truly believed the above statement, thought about it, and contemplated the reality of it, we should have no worries. We would have responsibility, yes; but we would no have anxiety. For the very God with whom we existed in Mind from the beginning, has our entire lives in order and we are learning in the time and space that we need to get life right!

This may mean going through a horrible addiction and coming out a completely changed person. This may mean suffering a terrible accident to find your strength in mind, not in body. This may mean trying multiple times to get something done, to achieve the utmost in your life, only to fall on your face a few times before you win. Nothing is for naught. Everything is for the Good of Spirit, who shaped and formed the worlds.

Today is a day of reconciliation for all—a day to rest and sit back in the reality of God in you, the hope of Glory.

Take a break and meditate on this thought and let it settle into the deepest part of your soul. Feel it in your toes and finger.

“God in you, the hope of Glory.”

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A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?cropped-cropped-6009Color1001.jpg

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

Create a Better Life with One Healing Session with Bo Sebastian

Call 954-253-6493 (All Sessions are done via PHONE, SKYPE or FACETIME.)

www.bosebastian.com

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: ]

 

 

 

 

 

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