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Boldness: How Do You Become Bolder?

I have definitely noticed that I have a lot less fear since I have gotten older. A essential reason exist for this change. When you some becomes older and actually faces the past anxieties, you move through fear in a completely different way in the present.

For instance, with certainty in this moment I know that I am:

  1. Sharing in the One Universal Mind
  2. I am always blessed, because I am made in the image of Spirit God
  3. I am always surrounded by angels who aid me in my human and spiritual issues
  4. I always have the ability to co-create in this universe and change my current situations, or at least I can change how I view or perceive the current situation
  5. With this ability to co-create, I am able to change the course of actions in my life; and in certain situations change the conditional situation in my world.

With this deep knowing, I am able to coerce any negative thoughts in my mind to believe what my heart and my consciousness knows with certainty. When I do this, I can face any challenge in the world. This takes a certain understanding of what is called the Observer Mind.

We know that there is only One Mind. We are all a part of that mind. However there are many diverse individual brains out there with many diverse programs operating in those brains.

The brain is an individual organ in each human body that is either programmed with positivity or negativity or a mixture of both. For instance, if you were an abused child, you can be assured that the neural pathways directing your thoughts will be eschewed from someone who has not been abused. This is science, not spirituality. This is the reason people who have PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress) feel as if they cannot change the organic process of their mind. The PTSD thought hits the frontal cortex of the brain before our reasoning mind has a chance to change the thought.

So, we must become a Scientist of our own Minds to make the shift. For this reason, we learn ways to access the voice inside that programs the thoughts during deep, healing meditations and in clinical hypnosis. We can and will change and assert new neural pathways, forging new and more positive thoughts in each human mind as we become more aware of our creative power.

You may have times in your life when you feel inadequate. Who doesn’t? In these moments you must access your truth. To simply speak any truth (usually in the form of affirmations) from the observer self to the physical self or the programmed mind seems like a challenge, especially if you have not experienced the observer mind.

I know this all sounds like a challenge, too technical, and maybe even like malarkey, but the process has been proven to work for millions in hypnosis where we often use the Observer Mind to speak to and communicate to the Physical Brain and the subconscious.

The brain is a part of your human self, a part of your human housing. You are a Spirit that is temporarily housed in a human shell. As a result of this knowledge you can change the trajectory of your life. I know this to be true, because I have done it and watched many others change horrible situations into power blessings by changing the neural triggers in the brain. (Notice I do not associate the brain with the Mind. They are two separate, but symbiotic, realities.)

I have been a hypnotherapist for 28 years. I have seen obese people become thin; smokers become adamant nonsmokers, people with sleep problems enjoy sleep, people who have had relationship problems learn to deal with the relationship with themselves and, in turn, fix the relationship issues in their lives, and the sick become healed. Anything is possible when you understand the basic truths of the universe!

Today, simply focus on one initial truth. Speak this to yourself out loud, if you can, and as you do so, pinch the space between your thumb and forefinger. This will cause a physical trigger to be connected to this thought:

There is only one mind and I am a part of that loving and creative energy.

This entire process is explained in my book: “Your New Story, Your New Life” The Metaphysical Mind.

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This Toaster Isn’t Working

Yesterday, my mother called out to me from the kitchen. “Bo, the toaster is broken! Could you check it for me? I set the dial to medium dark. I put the gluten-free bread in it. I even pressed the trigger to start the darn thing. Still, it does not work!”

If my mother was doing all that she was supposed to do to get connected to the electricity; if she was using the power source, acting on the science that was supposed to make the electrical kitchen appliance work, then something must be wrong with the power source, because the Law of Electricity would and should work if all things were connected properly and the energy is flowing from the source. Right?

I went to the main circuit breaker. Indeed, it was working properly. Next, I went to the connection to the source. Was the toaster actually plugged into the energy? It was not.

Metaphorically, what does this story teach us?

Many times we mutter to ourselves, “I am doing everything I am supposed to do to make my dreams come true. But nothing is happening! What is wrong?”

The entire time, though, we had not been plugged into the energy that creates and manifests our dreams. Our idea (the bread in the toaster) is intact and correct. Our brain (in this metaphor, would be the toaster) is working properly. But the brain is of no use, alone, unless it is plugged into the power—which is the Law.

Today’s lesson about your human brain is that it must be connected—or plugged into the energy of the Law—to work.

How do we PLUG IN to this Source? The truth is that you have always been, and will always be, plugged into Source, which we call Universal Power. Flipping that switch in our brain that invites Universal Power to work on our behalf in our individual minds and bodies is like the circuit breaker. It is a deliberate move to connect. It is an opening of the mind to a Truth, perhaps, beyond your understanding, at this point.

I will not ask you to believe without proof that this works. I simply need you to test this theory in your daily life.

Water your dreams with positivity and release all negative thoughts about your life. Simply observe what happens next.

Screen Shot 2016-05-11 at 10.04.32 AMIn your contemplation today, make sure that those delicate and beautiful dreams and ideas that you have created are connecting to your belief in yourself that can make your dreams manifest! This essential power of belief can make or break a beautiful idea trying to manifest.

Do the easy work. Connect with the Law!

If you have a dream, if you do the work, study the process, gather all the information needed, release all fear from your mind, open your heart to new ideas in your contemplative time and continue to step forward on the path to success, you will ultimately get there. No one knows how long it will take for your dream to manifest. However, you will get there.

(This post is a Discovery from “Your New Story, Your New Life,” which is available on Amazon here. 

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What’s Worse: Death or the Fear of Death? #facingdeath #Dallasmurders #psychology #spiritualadvice

I have challenged every significant fight concerning living in the past and facing the challenge of the future boldly. Ultimately, I believe that to face life head-on, you must first recognize that your life is ephemeral. Your physical body will eventually die. You don’t know when. You don’t know how. But there is no one who has conquered death. So, it would seem that facing this simple challenge would give you stamina to face anything on this earth if death is, indeed, the ultimate fear.

From the standpoint of those with a deadly disease or in palliative care, a dying person may tell me of the wonders of life lived with love. My father shared his disappointment of spending too much time wasted in fear or in unforgiveness. But the permeating reality from those who are dying is that a life worth living is not one that would include fear: fear of living, fear of reaching one’s goals, and definitely not fear of death itself.

Without getting into a religious diatribe about if there is life after death, you must recognize that any moment spent in anxiety and stress is a moment lost, especially for those who don’t believe in life after death. Positivity and love, peace and truth are what seem to enrich lives and produce productivity, prosperity and happiness.

I have wasted many days, months and years afraid of death, afraid of rejection, and ultimately afraid of facing pain. Worse still, this fear has kept me from sharing my gifts. I hide from the darkness only to discover that light wants to shine through me and guide me away from danger.

You cannot turn on the television, open up your web browser or walk outside without being hit with news of wars, destruction, and murders. It surrounds me even more today than anytime I can ever remember. Does it bother me? Does it flood my mind with fear that maybe I will be the next one and the end of an assault rifle? Yes, sometimes. But, mostly what happens in the face of death is a dose of harsh reality.

Life is for the living. If you waste the life you have on fears, not reaching your potential, walking in negativity instead of spreading positivity and love, then you have wasted the energy you have been put on this earth to share.

I will not let the Daily News tell me how to think. I will not let the presidential election overtake my life. I will not let terrorist get inside my mind and change my truth. Ultimately, my truth is what gets me through the day with a positive attitude. My truth—gathered from many days and nights of learning what is important in life—brings me joy, gives me the opportunity to spread love to those around me, and leads me to share light instead of darkness.

“Your New Story, Your New Life” The Metaphysical Mind.

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