Waiting… Wait… Keep on Waiting: AGGGHH!

Has life been a constant waiting game—for that important phone call, that new job, that business deal, and that all important wait—the money you need yesterday?

A recent article in The Guardian entitled:

“Poor people don’t plan long-term. We’ll just get our hearts broken”

speaks volumes. Is life supposed to be about waiting_impatiently or are we to have an important understanding about life that we haven’t yet understood? This morning I woke up and decided to sit quietly, because I noticed recently I have been contemplating poverty instead of prosperity, which is an old habit. I grew up poor, so the thoughts of loss and never having enough run through my veins. Often, I have to take a moment to process why.

As I sat quietly, I asked myself and the Universe the question: Why?

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I start with some deep breaths, finding a way to open my heart to Truth, perhaps, I’m not aware of in my own mind. I let go of my arms, my legs, my face muscles, even the control of my breath and feel my body grow limp, in the arms of something much greater than I. This kind of Letting Go is imperative to reaching out of your humanness into a spiritual place that most of us are simply afraid of going.

For me, this has become my home—my comfort zone, my re-energizing space, my place of inquiry and recharging!

In this place, I began to feel interestingly and unusual sensation. I felt as if I was sitting in front of myself. It frightened me a little. So, I quickly pulled away. Then, I realized this was part of the process. I let go again and imagined that same feeling. It happened again. This time I stayed with it as long as I could. Inner guidance!

What I recognized was that I was being called to come out of my old thinking and look into the present moment, the prosperous place where there is no anxiety. The reason why this place felt unusual was because it held within it—complete peace, with no resistance.

Before I knew it, almost an hour had gone by. My dog began to whine, because it was time for Daddy to take him on his morning walk. I don’t ever need an alarm in the morning. Coco has the time firmly imbedded in his brain.

I was still fumbling around, half-wake and half-asleep as I walked down the corridor in front of my condo to get to the walkway for Coco to do his business. In my mind I was repeating my question to Spirit when I suddenly tripped and grabbed for the wall next to me. There, right by my shoulder, was a snail on the wall.

The day before I had seen 2 snails. As my fiancé and I often do, we look at our online resources to see if this is a Native America Totem or some known sign from the universe.

The meaning of snail for me was this:

a snail means that areas of one’s life are slow in moving together. On the positive side, the actual snail has determination and you may adhere to the development. 

A snail embodies your sensitivity and vulnerability. It means that you have the tendency to isolate yourself, and you would need a lot of perseverance and patience in order to change. This change will occur very slowly. The snail represents self-control and patience, because moving slow means planning and acting with caution.

To fall into a snail after I had just had the experience with two snails the day before, was just another sign of assurance that the message was the same: Be Patient!

I even felt a calm assurance as if an angel spoke to me and said: “You are going to be fine. This is just a time of waiting. Be patient. All will unfold in the perfect time!”

I share this because I know that many of you are experiencing this same feeling of impatience, especially about money and finance. I want you to know that as you read this,

even now, your heart is feeling lighter about your current situation. You are being led into the quiet, too, to get your special sign that all is well—always!


You don’t get to this voice if reason or recognize it unless you spend time with yourself in silence, asking yourself important self-talk questions. This is like dating. You must get to know the voice of the Spirit by spending time in meditation and silence. This is the only I know to clearly download the power of wisdom and recognize the voice—IN TIMES OF TRAUMA—that is always directing YOU into safety!


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