What Is Safe? #psychology #lifecoaching #fear #anxiety

I was fifty before I realized that losing my mother at eight years old to live with alcoholic father made me fear most of the world, especially losing people in all kinds of relationships. Our attachments as children can impact our entire life. The only reason I was able to even begin to regain confidence in life was because, my mother who left my father at a young age, came back into my life as an adult. She lived with me for seven years. As we got to really know each other and I felt her unadulterated love, I began to understand what I had missed all of those years. It was as if the gaping hole in my heart that kept wanting to be filled by relationship had suddenly began to fill with secure love. I noticed the older I got that I “needed” relationship less and less.

I have friends who used to tell me all the time that I wasted much too much time on intimate relationships—looking for them, trusting them, and clinging to them. As hard as it is to admit, they were correct. But, who can tell someone who is hurting inside not to hurt? Or who can tell a person with a broken leg to walk? This is something you have to come to yourself.

What I’m describing above is called anxious attachment. I wrote a book about it. If you suffer from this kind of neediness and can’t seem to get away from avoidant people in relationships, I assure you that you will be comforted from the lessons I learned. The book is called: “Learning Alone.” You can find it on Amazon.com or any online booksellers or libraries



A Single Session w/Bo Sebastian

What would you feel like if everyday you loved yourself a little more…

What would you be if you loved and gave compassion unconditionally… to yourself first and then to others?

If you could imagine yourself so connected to God Source that everything you thought and every action you completed you trusted could heal yourself and, ultimately the world around you?

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If you are a gay man or woman, you may want to direct your gaze to my newest blog: Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. This blog is an extension of my Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/UncommonGaySpiritualWarrior/) and group meetings about the rare combination of spirituality and “being gay” defines the most important part of us, even in relationship. Join me at: http://uncommongayspiritualwarrior.blogspot.com/. 

Bo works with people on SKYPE and FaceTime all over the world. He is taking new clients now. Call 954-253-6493 for information.

Take the time to look at Bo’s bookshelf of self-help books, novels, healing downloads, and yoga DVD. All of Bo’s books help people such as you, make SIGNIFICANT CHANGE with habits, find your SOULMATE, your PASSION, reach YOUR DREAMS, and dictate your own FUTURE.

Chosen to show his new hypnotherapeutic techniques on The Learning Channel (TLC) and also given the opportunity to teach at the world conference for Learning, and received the award of excellence for Helping Overcome Obesity in Nashville, Bo Sebastian is the writer and director of Finding Authentic You and Uncommon Gay Spiritual Warrior. Go directly to Amazon/Amazon Kindle to buy any of his wonderfully inspired books: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_6?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=bo%20sebastian&sprefix=bo+seb%2Caps%2C190&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Abo%20sebastian]





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